atomic: no tv just a video projector
so you have the B&O DVD1 direct to the Oley projector ?
and no other B&O equipment ?
It is not my area of experience but I think you are out of luck.
The only suggestion is that the Beo5 remote may be able to control both units.
I suggest you re-ask the question in the Beo5 forum or send a Personal Message to Keith Saunders who is the Beo5 expert
First B&O (1976) was a Beogram 1500 ... latest (2011) change has been to couple the BL11 with the BL6Ks *sounds superb*