Tony: use Beoplayer as the media player on a PC between Beoport and N.Music on a Beosound3200
There has been a similar debate elsewhere this past week.
One poster was arguing to just use the hard drive in the Beosound 3200.
Personally I have never favoured trying to key in the names of CDs through the Beosound.
I do not find BeoPlayer too bad. I actually liked its "style". Others have found it too minimalistic. But I agree try to control BeoPlayer through the Beo4 does tax one's memory.
But BeoPlayer is what you are "stuck" with if you have a Windows machine.
Unless you want to contemplate switching to a Apple Mac for your media server; or an audio distribution system like AirTunes (soon to be AIrPlay .... on Windows?)
If you have an Airport express you can broadcast from iTunes to the Airport and have it plugged into the Beosound 3200 as a AUX input.
Your track selection etc control then has to be an iPhone running Apple Remote app.
First B&O (1976) was a Beogram 1500 ... latest (2011) change has been to couple the BL11 with the BL6Ks *sounds superb*