I will say that every time I run into audiophiles or my few audiophile friends, I usually end up preaching to them how they should just enjoy their music, and stop fussing! Why do it at all if you are not enjoying the music?
Initially I bought B&O for its sound/engineering merits. I now consider appearance also, but it isnt my first priority.
My primary system does have a large amount of beo content, but there are some large non-beo pieces I have integrated.
I use my BM4500 as a pre-amp only and think it is quite modern even if it is older than me! I use a Beo4 and the simplicity is great.
Jonathan, I don't think your request is far out of the question. With Tue's mention of entry level products to lure in the young ones, I'm sure the thought is being considered by B&O.