This is speculation. However, are you sure you have broken them?
I have just repaired a b&o vhs and whilst it maybe/is a rebadged unit made by someone else the system may be the same. The connectors for this remain mounted to the board and instead you pull the cable out and when putting a new board in or something the cable is re-inserted.
I thought that they were like the IDE cables on a computer and that you pulled the cable away leaving the male(?) socket on the board and taking the female(?) away with the cable.