joynsyde: Congratulations, indeed!
How about some advice for people like myself who are still in the single digits of married life?
After the initial locking of horns and jostling for the upper hand etc - the great secret seems to be to just do what she says!
Anyhoo thanks for everyones kinds wishes - the years have actually shot by so quickly its frightening! I have now been married more than half my life, god I feel old!
Suffice to say I wouldn't have had it any other way (or so she tells me)
They have been 25 great years and I hope there are many, many more to come.
Generally speaking, you aren't learning much if your lips are moving.