burantek:Is the weakest link the actual eye? (i.e.) Is the 455 "threshold" driven by the receiver, or by the processing of the signal in the ultimate device?
Think of the IR receiver as a radio tuner - it receives the program modulated on a certain carrier frequency, and out comes baseband audio (or the decoded data of the IR command). A receiver tuned to 455 kHz won't care about transmissions on other frequencies, and out comes nothing. The microcontroller in the receiving device doesn't know about the frequency anymore, it just gets the decoded data. For B&O, this is actually very near to the data format that runs over Datalink.
I suppose B&O chose the higher frequency for better noise immunity and reliability. Most other IR remote methods send just 8 to 16 bits per command, while B&O's two-way communications may use very long commands, easily 50 bits per frame or more.
As a sidenote, the 455 kHz IR receivers used in most B&O kit are built from discrete components, and circuitwise they are actually very close to an old school direct AM radio tuner! There are integrated 3-pin receiver ICs available for 455 kHz as well (like Vishay TSOP7000), but their performance isn't nearly as good as the B&O implementations.
Most other manufacturers use the 30-60 kHz systems with integrated receivers, and we all know what you need to do with them - aim...