I think at the end of it all, when it comes to music, 2 channels is the way to go, because we have 2 ears, and when we go to see a band/orchestra/opera etc they tend to all be on the same stage in front of us...
Sure, in films it is great to have spaceships flying overhead, helicopters landing behind you etc, and this is the role of multi-channel audio. In a battlefield, out in the street etc there are things going on all around you, and a surround setup certainly helps with that immersion.
But when playing a CD, Billy Joel didn't sit in front of you, playing a piano behind you.... The Who didn't make Entwistle "stand over there", so multi-channel audio is not the system to reproduce their music....
I can agree when at a gig you have noise all around, but the band is front and centre. The sounds from the side/behind are there so the people who didn't get good tickets can still hear something....
Of course, the sounds of the couple having an argument behind you may add to the feel, but do you really need to reproduce it in your own home?
Maybe a device that would elbow you in the back and spill beer on your shirt would add something also, but I can do without it