I think I understand the B&O logic in the absence of a load/eject button on the remotes, and I 100% understand this logic:
a remote control is a ..remote (!) unit, that's used away from the system you want to control, and obviously, if you want to load/eject a cd/DVD, it means you're already in front of the player, so why do you want to press on the remote for that, if you're already in front of your BeoCenter or BeoVision/BeoSound??
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