Gary.
Whatever you do, DON'T leave Beoworld due to a difference of opinion.
Just let it waft over you, and have pleasant thoughts about the day you won second prize in our first ever draw.
We all have different attitudes and have different ways of speaking. What would seem a perfectly natural thing to say to one person may be highly offensive to another.
Goodness, you should hear what Puncher calls me!!

Andy T.