Hey Keith, as I mentioned you'll be fine using just tacky glue from a craft store too. As far as putting weight on the rings, I don't. Instead after I glue them, I wait about a minute, then lightly go around pressing down with my finger tips, then wait another minute and start pressing down again, over a total of about 5 min. I wouldn't be surprised if you were told that isn't the proper method, but I haven't had any issues before.
Also, make sure you glue the ring to the cone first, not the frame to the ring first. And wait at least half a day before then gluing the outer edge of the ring. As for shims, I can't tell you for Pentas, as it depends on the particular woofer. Some have tighter tolerances than others. On some woofers the tolerance is low enough that you can just press lightly on the cone to make sure it's centered and not rubbing. On others it's a good idea to use shims. Also, rather than buying shims you can use the thin plastic collar stays.
Austin