bayerische: BV5, a design icon. I put it in the same bag as the BLab5's and BSound 9000. Exceptional!
It's exactly this combination (together with more stuff, of course ...
) I went for and for the quoted reason. What I can say is I'm happy I went for the BV5 more than 4 1/2 years ago (long time of your life if you think about it ...), enjoying it immensely since, not being tempted at all by the new TVs, so far. Today I understand your dilemma …
Though B&O is very expensive and I agree with KingofSnakes that it often seems like "chasing your own tail", it also gives you possibility to plan for long term, which other manufactures are not able to offer. Indeed, using a lot of money on anything deserves careful consideration and planning – to begin with.
That said, getting back to the original question, much will depend on your personal circumstances/plans etc.: eg I had guessed that I'd for years to come use only (2) digital STBs as my source of TV, with HD being offered by both platforms a distant and rather limited possibility – exactly that happened. Last, but not least I have many hundreds of DVDs which the whole family enjoys. (We only press the 'TV' button by accident). In other words, I knew this set would for years to come take on the role of the main source of entertainment ...
Secondly, in a market that moves so fast it would be nonsensical to expect the second-hand price of such sets will stay attractive (in a sense that I bought the set new), so I will use it one day in a link room. BUT, in a link room with a dedicated DVD player, because with a good DVD disc, indeed, you get the best out of a (non)BV5 there - for many years to come and the bigger your DVD collection the longer. (Good it can play in stereo mode, too!) Does it make sense to have two entertainment centres in your home? Yes, if you have kids, eg
Third, I really do think that 42” gives you much better experience than 32”, even if BV5 needs a separate DVD player … Do you? Etc. etc.
Enjoying BV5 for years, I feel I can only give you hints (even Peter has only/even ‘stayed tempted’ on this one – and for some time now!), the rest has to be up to you.